Toxic Relationships
A relationship is a tide for war. Once entered. battle is all but assured. The only question is. Is this relationship worth the fight?
There’s a huge misconception around the idea of “Toxic Relationship” so I’m here to clarify some points !
Is there a reason you feel the way you feel or is it an over reaction to something predicated on the fact of other things swirling around in the universe around you?
The definition of “ Toxic ” is in fact different for everyone and everybody in existence, first define yours.
Once defined. Outline an area of exemption or an area for errors or offenses. NO Person is Perfect. Meaning expect offenses to your beliefs and feelings as its almost impossible to not encroach on someone’s everything when in close proximity. This is made worse when they are ignorant of themselves. It makes it harder to outline a path forward to coexistence.
In life people change and grow. Some grow apart and some grow together. In this journey we call life we must come to a conclusion. We must judge not only others but more importantly ourselves in this process. Remember no one is perfect and people can change given the opportunity to do so. They also could not change and instead take advantage. This is where your decision making skills and intuition comes into play. I’d say it’s earned a listen or two.
5. Remember Everyone is not against you they are for themselves. This means people do things that don’t put you first or hurt you isn’t always the wrong thing for them to do. it’s a game of survival and everyone is doing their best
